Why Women Are Attracted To Feminine Men
From when we were babies to hitherto social pressures have forced us into the role of being a man.
We were discouraged to act feminine. It’s part of being socialized.
We learnt this from our parents, teachers, the media, and friends.
Perhaps an example would shed light on this.
Take a visit to a local toy store.
At every toy store they have a section for boys and one for girls. Boys aren’t supposed to go into the girl’s section unless they are buying a present for their little sister.
In the boys section you’ll find G.I. Joes, Transformers, and Thomas the Train.
For the girl’s, you’ll find toys such as Brats.
These toys aren’t just “toys.” They’re teaching aids for training kids to become a man or a woman.
If a boy is caught brushing a Brat doll’s hair his friends will most likely make fun of him and call him a girl.
If his mother or father catch him doing this, they’ll immediately take the doll away from him and worry that he isn’t being socialized as a male.
As a result, most boys grow up to become men fearful of acting like a woman.
There’s nothing wrong with this except that some of the best seducers have developed their feminine side. These men are called “Dandies.”
They oscillate between the role of a man and a woman.
In fact, their seductive power lies in that they cannot be categorized as masculine or feminine.
When a person cannot be categorized, they entrance others. We are attracted to those who entrance us.
The famous psychiatrist Dr. Freud famously said that people are bisexual. According to him, all of us are attracted to both males and females.
But social constraints prevent us from acting on these desires.
Women are attracted to the Dandy because he is a woman inside a man’s body.
Dandies are notoriously insolent: they have very little need to please people – especially women. This is another facet of their allure.
To become a Dandy, train yourself to be attentive to detail, relinquish your need to please others, and develop your feminine side.
Here are a few historical Dandies: Rudolph Valentino, Oscar Wilde, and Andy Warhol.
This will work whether you make your money from marketing, advertising, the finance world, selling autos, or something else.
Whether you’re into blogs, gardening, sports, spirituality, religion, traveling the world, being a family man, or health and fitness, this advice will help you.
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