Why Women Love Charismatic Man
Have you ever noticed how certain celebrities and political leaders have some magnetic X factor you cannot quite put your finger on?
Maybe you’ve even had a few friends with this almost magical X factor.
What exactly is it? What’s it called?
The phenomenon I’m referring to is charisma.
Have you ever wondered: is charisma some innate quality you’re born with or is it something you can develop?
Many psychologists will tell you it’s something you’re born with.
But I’m a firm believer that it’s something you can develop.
Here are two attributes of the charismatic person. (With a little work, you can develop them as well.)
1) Being More Mysterious:
There are two sides to this.
The first is manifesting attributes about yourself that are at odds with each other.
An example of a charismatic political leader with contradictory personality traits is Peter the Great. He was both cruel and kind.
When you manifest traits that are at odds with each other people cannot pigeonhole you.
When they cannot figure you out, they become entranced.
The second aspect is being uncanny.
When people think you have supernatural powers they see you as charismatic.
This is why cult leaders and some political stewards (in some parts of the world) are perceived by others as possessing charisma.
2) Inspiring Others To Be Better Than They Are:
If you can goad a person into seeing themselves as better than they currently are, they will see you as charismatic. If you can spur them to take action on this realization, they’ll see you as a super charismatic person.
John F. Kennedy was a master at this.
He spellbound America when he said, “It’s not what your country can do for you, but what you can do for your country.”
He made us think we could be better people then we were.
Here’s your homework:
1) Think of a couple of your attributes that are at odds with with one another. Instead of hiding them, hone them and let them shine in their full glory.
2) Whenever a friend is feeling down think of how you can make them see themselves in a better light.
This will work whether you make your money from marketing, advertising, the finance world, selling autos, or something else.
Whether you’re into blogs, gardening, sports, spirituality, religion, traveling the world, being a family man, or health and fitness, this advice will help you.
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